People are so easy to get lost, and to get something lost. Sometimes we think we've taken enough care of something, but when we lose it we just begin to realize, that some lost may never be restituted.
I watched a Chinese film (Dearest) last night after coming back from the study of BSF. I shouldn't have, as I couldn't stop myself staying up until the end of the film. The film tells a story about the parents getting the children lost. Mainly about a divorced couple who get their child lost and keep searching for about 4 years and finally found their only son.
It is a film giving me the feelings of desperation. Last film in which I could feel the same feelings is the file "Rachel's getting Married". Both of the two films describes the deep darkness in the hearts of people, so profondly and so really. Y asked me whether I would like to have a cute child after watching the film. I cried on the pillow saying no, because the world is so cruel, I don't know how to teach him/her to face it.
The little boy was just 3 years old when he was trafficked. 4 years later, he no longer could recognize his real parents, calling a village woman "Mama" in dialect. He was crying in the back of his father, when his father ran desperately after the first sight of him through all the researching through all these terrible years.
I can't imagine how difficultly may they've been through in the real life, but the film reflects so well the realistics.
What a pity that the life has no sector like "the Lost and Found". Sometimes we're lucky enough to get something back, though much time has passed. But most of the time we have to endure all the desperation we have to be through, just because the life sometimes plays some jokes.
Taking care is never enough.
Take care of what is important for you, MM !
Love,
Miao
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